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ABANDONED 1
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| HDIF when I hear the psalm, My God, My God, why have you abandoned me? |
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ABILITY 19
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| Do I let worry and fear drain my ability to deal with other things? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my ability to persevere? |
| HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship? |
| HDIF about my ability to share my relationship with God with you? |
| HDIF about my ability to speak to you freely about our sexual relationship? |
| HDIF when I judge you are better than me at something that I take pride in my ability to do? |
| What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about my ability to accept your loving me? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAT? |
| What limits my ability to love my people? HDIFAT? |
| What limits my ability to love you? HDIFAT? |
| If I could gain any one ability or quality, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| Does our ability to have children make a difference in our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our ability or inability to have children? |
| What quality, ability or gift of yours am I most proud to share with others? HDIFAT? |
| We have the ability to forgive each other. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF sharing an unusual ability or talent with others? |
| My most unusual ability or talent is _____. HDIFAT? |
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ABLE 25
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| HDIF about what I am able to provide for our family? |
| HDIF when I am able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking? |
| HDIF when I am able to go beyond my anger and reach out to you? |
| HDIF when I am able to sleep in? |
| HDIF when I am able to tell you what bugs me? |
| HDIF when I am able to tell you what pleases me? |
| What happens when we are able to reveal all of ourselves to each other? HDIFAT? |
| What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but have not been able to? HDIFAT? |
| Would I have been able to stay at the Garden of Gethsemane knowing what was going to happen? HDIFAT? |
| What needs of yours do I see me being able to help with? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Am I able to see your side? HDIFAT? |
| Am I able to be more open with other people than with you? HDIFAT? |
| Am I able to be myself when I am with you? HDIFAT? |
| Am I able to concentrate and perform better under pressure? HDIFAT? |
| Am I able to forgive myself? HDIFAT? |
| Am I able to maintain my sense of humor even in trying times? HDIFAT? |
| Am I able to watch someone else make a mistake without commenting? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have all I want or am I able to do without? HDIFAT? |
| Do I nurse a grudge, or am I able to let it go? HDIFAT? |
| How well am I able to adjust to new ways of doing things? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am not able to express my physical needs to you in our lovemaking? |
| HDIF when I am not able to handle the pressures in my life? |
| HDIF when we are not able to handle the pressures in our relationship? |
| HDIF when you are not able to handle the pressures in your life? |
| HDIF when I do not seem able to reach you? |
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ABORTION 1
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| HDIF when I see an abortion rally? |
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ABSENCE 3
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| Does absence from my people make my heart grow fonder for them? HDIFAT? |
| Does absence from you make my heart grow fonder for you? HDIFAT? |
| How did the absence of dialogue affect our communication and closeness? HDIFAT? |
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ABSOLUTE 1
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| Do I make the absolute best of what God gives me to work with? HDIFAT? |
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ABSOLUTELY 2
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| What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT? |
| What will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT? |
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ABSOLUTES 1
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| After a fight: Did I use exaggerations or absolutes? HDIFAT? |
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ABSTINENCE 1
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| Which is easier for me, abstinence or moderation? HDIFAT? |
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ABUSE 1
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| HDIF about our friends who abuse drugs or alcohol? |
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ABUSED 3
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| HDIF when I hear about someone who has been abused? |
| Do I feel abused or threatened in our relationship? What is this emotion / feeling like? |
| Describe a time when I felt abused. HDIFAT? |
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ACCENT 1
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| Do people tell you that you have an accent? HDIFAT? |
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ACCEPT 59
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| Do I look for and accept the Lord's will for my life? |
| Do I try to fix your problems, or just listen and accept how you feel about them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize and accept Jesus' closeness in our daily lives? |
| HDIF when you really try to reach out and accept my emotions / feelings? |
| If you are not free to reject, you cannot accept. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it? |
| HDIF when you accept me but I cannot accept myself? |
| HDIF when you have an attitude I cannot accept? |
| Do I fully accept our differences in personality and temperament? HDIFAT? |
| What compliments have I received lately that I did not fully accept? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept compliments easily? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept criticism or try to suppress it? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept feedback from you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept gifts well? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept God's will? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept my mistakes and learn from them? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept myself as I am? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept our children for who they are? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept the burdens God has given me, or do I try to overcome in spite of them? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept your praise? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I accept love as well as give it? |
| How do I accept responsibilities? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept criticism from my people? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept criticism from you? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept criticism? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept my own aging? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept others outside of Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept others outside of my community? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept responsibility when it is put upon me? HDIFAT? |
| When I accept advice from others, am I willing to accept their help as well? HDIFAT? |
| What feeling have I not shared with you this week because I thought you would not accept me? HDIFAT? |
| When over the last week did I not accept your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| Can I really accept God's plan for us? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to fix my people's problems or can I listen to them and simply accept them as they are? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I judge (rather than accept) your emotions / feelings? |
| HDIF when we invite a couple to experience the weekend and they accept? |
| Am I doing better learning to accept you as you are? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more likely to accept others as they are, or to make judgements about them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about learning to accept you as you are? |
| HDIF about the way I am learning to accept you as you are? |
| HDIF when we have to accept God's plan for us? |
| Is it easy for me to accept help when I need it? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about my ability to accept your loving me? HDIFAT? |
| What emotions / feelings do I find most difficult to accept in myself? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from others? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from you? HDIFAT? |
| What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but have not been able to? HDIFAT? |
| When I accept advice from others, am I willing to accept their help as well? HDIFAT? |
| When I am given things to do, am I more likely to accept them or complain about them? HDIFAT? |
| Do we accept each other as we are, or do we try to remodel each other? HDIFAT? |
| Do we accept only members of our church / parish family who are like us? HDIFAT? |
| How do I behave so that others will accept me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you accept a part of me that I had difficulty sharing? |
| HDIF when you accept me but I cannot accept myself? |
| HDIF when you accept my emotions / feelings? |