APPLIANCE 1

What kitchen appliance am I most like? HDIFAT?

APPLY 2

Do I apply Gospel values to my job or career? HDIFAT?

Love is patient, love is kind. How does this apply to our family? HDIFAT?

APPOINTMENT 1

HDIF when I am late for an appointment and not near a phone?

APPRECIATE 13

Do I appreciate you enough? HDIFAT?

Do I let people know often enough how much I appreciate the things they do? HDIFAT?

Do I show our children how much I appreciate them? HDIFAT?

Do I show you how much I appreciate you? HDIFAT?

Have I told any of my people how much I appreciate them today? HDIFAT?

Have I told you how much I appreciate you today? HDIFAT?

How and when did I appreciate your beauty this week? HDIFAT?

I appreciate your patience with me when I _____. HDIFAT?

What do you do that I appreciate but have not told you? HDIFAT?

Do I need you to help me appreciate my good qualities? HDIFAT?

HDIF when you seem to appreciate me?

When I am hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____ . HDIFAT?

When you are hurt, I would appreciate it if you would _____. HDIFAT?

APPRECIATED 5

How do I behave when I crave to be appreciated? HDIFAT?

What would I like to be appreciated for? HDIFAT?

What gift have you given me in the past month that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?

What gift have you given me in the past week that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?

What gift have you given me in the past year that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT?

APPRECIATION 1

Do I show my appreciation to those who deserve it? HDIFAT?

APPROACH 2

How do I approach each new day with you and with God? HDIFAT?

How would I approach Advent and Christmas if I knew this would be our last Christmas season together? HDIFAT?

APPROACHED 2

Do I usually initiate friendships or wait to be approached? HDIFAT?

In company, do I initiate conversation or wait to be approached? HDIFAT?

APPROACHES 1

HDIF about our preparations as Christmas approaches?

APPROACHING 5

HDIF approaching Christ as a couple?

HDIF when fall is approaching?

HDIF when spring is approaching?

HDIF when summer is approaching?

HDIF when winter is approaching?

APPROPRIATE 1

Do I vent my anger in an appropriate way? HDIFAT?

APPROPRIATELY 1

Do I release my anger and frustration appropriately or inappropriately? HDIFAT?

APPROVAL 2

Where do I look most for approval, inside or outside? HDIFAT?

Do I ever change what I write or say to gain your approval? HDIFAT?

APPROVE 1

When I do not approve of the way a friend is acting, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?

APRIL 1

HDIF when someone succeeds in fooling me on April Fool's Day?

APRON 1

Have I cut the apron strings? HDIFAT?

ARCHIVE 1

What goals would I like to archive in the next few months? HDIFAT?

AREA 45

HDIF when I consider that I am responsible for every area of my life?

What has been the greatest area of growth in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT?

The one area which needs the most work in our relationship is _____. HDIFAT?

HDIF about our growth (or lack of growth) in the area of sex?

In the area of child raising, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?

In the area of death, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?

In the area of God and our faith, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?

In the area of money, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?

In the area of prayer, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe it

In the area of sex, what emotion / feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?

In the area of use of time what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? HDIFAT?

What are my expectations of you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?

What are my hopes for us in the area of sex? HDIFAT?

What is the area I least want to discuss with you? HDIFAT?

What is the area that is most difficult for me to discuss with you? HDIFAT?

What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?

What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of death? HDIFAT?

What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of money? HDIFAT?

What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of prayer? HDIFAT?

What mask (personality style) do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?

I think you misunderstand me in this area: _____. HDIFAT?

What is the touchiest area in our relationship? HDIFAT?

In what area do I judge myself inferior to my people? HDIFAT?

In what area do I judge myself inferior to you? HDIFAT?

In what area do I most need my people's help in living my sacrament / calling? HDIFAT?

In what area do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?

In what area do I most need your help in living my sacrament / calling? HDIFAT?

In what area do I need to risk sharing more with God? HDIFAT?

In what area do I need to risk sharing more with my people? HDIFAT?

In what area do I need to risk sharing more with you? HDIFAT?

In what area do we have hurt in our relationship? HDIFAT?

In what area in our relationship, have I experienced the most hurt or pain lately? HDIFAT?

In what area is there movement in my life, but not forward movement? HDIFAT?

In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDIFAT?

In what area of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT?

In what area of our relationship am I experiencing loneliness? HDIFAT?

In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT?

What area is difficult for me to share my emotions / feelings about? HDIFAT?

What area is the hardest for me to reveal to you? HDIFAT?

What area of my communication with God do I need to improve? HDIFAT?

What area of my communication with my people do I think I need to improve? HDIFAT?

What area of my prayer life do I need to work on? HDIFAT?

What area of my relationship with my people do I need to work on? HDIFAT?

What area of our communication do I think I/we need to improve? HDIFAT?

What area of our relationship do I, or do we, need to work on? HDIFAT?

AREAS 59

I need support from you in the following areas: _____. HDIFAT?

In what important areas do I find it most difficult to listen to you? HDIFAT?

Are we constantly getting hurt and making up in the same areas? HDIFAT?

Are we constantly making up in the same areas? HDIFAT?

In what specific areas of sexuality am I reluctant to open up? HDIFAT?

What are two specific areas in which I tolerate your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?

The areas where I have seen the most growth in you are _____. HDIFAT?

Are there areas where I need a lot of reassurance? HDIFAT?

Are there areas where our sexual relationship could be improved? HDIFAT?

I have discovered I am very dependent on you in these areas: _____. HDIFAT?

What areas do I avoid in dialogue? Why do I avoid these areas? HDIFAT?

Do I still judge you and try to change your emotions / feelings in touchy areas? HDIFAT?

Do I take time to think about unsatisfactory areas of my life? HDIFAT?

In what areas am I most afraid to tell the truth about myself? HDIFAT?

In what areas are we equal partners in decision making? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I fail to practice what I preach? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I feel inferior to you? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I feel vulnerable to you? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I find I lack confidence in dialogue? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I find it most difficult to reach out to you? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I have difficulty putting full trust in God? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I judge you are most frustrated because I do not listen? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I most admire or respect your emotions / feelings? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I most need the Lord's help? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I most need your help in living as a sacramental couple? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I most need your help? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I need to be more sensitive to you? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I not listen to you? To our children? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I tiptoe around you? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I trust you less? HDIFAT?

In what areas do I trust you more? HDIFAT?

In what areas do need to grow as a couple? HDIFAT?

In what areas do you make most of the decisions? HDIFAT?

In what areas have we grown because of past failures? HDIFAT?

In what areas is it most difficult for me to let you know how I feel? HDIFAT?

In what areas of our life together am I most dependent on you? HDIFAT?

In what areas of our relationship am I still private because I do not trust you to understand? HDIFAT?

In what areas of our relationship do I exercise the most control? HDIFAT?

In what areas of our relationship do I think I am number one with you? HDIFAT?

In what areas of our relationship do we most need to grow? HDIFAT?

In what areas or ways am I least responsive to you? HDIFAT?

In what areas or ways do I compete against my people? HDIFAT?

In what areas or ways do I compete against you? HDIFAT?

In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to my people? HDIFAT?

In what areas or ways do I consider myself superior to you? HDIFAT?

In what areas or ways do I think I am taken for granted? HDIFAT?

What areas do I avoid in dialogue? Why do I avoid these areas? HDIFAT?

What areas do I least like to dialogue on? HDIFAT?

What areas do I most like to dialogue about? HDIFAT?

What areas do I most like to dialogue on? HDIFAT?

What areas have I closed my ears to listening to my people? HDIFAT?

What areas have I closed my ears to listening to you? HDIFAT?

What areas in our marriage are good? HDIFAT?

What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT?

What areas of a couple's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?

What areas of a priest's / pastor's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT?

What areas of our relationship do I most often control? HDIFAT?

What areas of our relationship do I take responsibility for? HDIFAT?

What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT?