ACCEPTANCE 5

What do I do to gain acceptance and profit emotionally? HDIFAT?

In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? HDIFAT?

In what way has our acceptance of each other created a new world for us? HDIFAT?

How do I behave when I experience your total acceptance of me? HDIFAT?

When have I experienced your acceptance of me this week? HDIFAT?

ACCEPTED 6

HDIF when I am accepted and cared for?

What do I do in a group of strangers to be accepted and HDIFAT?

Lately, have I accepted people's emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?

Lately, have I accepted your emotions / feelings, merely tolerated them, or rejected them? HDIFAT?

Do I tend to do things in the accepted way or am I more creative? HDIFAT?

How have we accepted Jesus' call to be fishers of men? HDIFAT?

ACCEPTING 22

HDIF about accepting our life together as a gift from Our Father?

HDIF about accepting you just as you are?

What happens to me when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT?

What happens to us when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT?

Am I doing better accepting you as you are? HDIFAT?

What is there about me that I have most difficulty accepting? HDIFAT?

Do I believe we are called to be a sacramental couple? HDIF accepting this vocation?

What happens to me when we are not accepting of each other? HDIFAT?

What happens to us when we are not accepting of each other? HDIFAT?

Do I let my low self-esteem get in the way of accepting God's love for me? HDIFAT?

Do I sometimes control you instead of accepting you the way you are? HDIFAT?

Do I sometimes try to control you instead of accepting you they way you are? HDIFAT?

Do I try to change God instead of accepting Him the way He is? HDIFAT?

Do I try to change my people instead of accepting them the way they are? HDIFAT?

Do I try to change you instead of accepting you the way you are? HDIFAT?

Have I been critical or accepting of you this week? HDIFAT?

Am I really accepting of you or do I feel the need to change you? HDIFAT?

Do I give thanks to God for what I have not received, accepting that is His plan? HDIFAT?

What feeling in myself do I have the hardest time accepting and why? HDIFAT?

What of my emotions / feelings do I have the hardest time accepting? HDIFAT?

Do I have trouble accepting that my / our grown child is not the the ideal I dreamed of? HDIFAT?

What little annoyances am I having trouble accepting? HDIFAT?

ACCEPTS 1

HDIF when a couple accepts our invitation to experience the weekend?

ACCIDENT 1

How do I think we got together? Accident, fate or God? HDIFAT?

ACCOMPLISH 7

HDIF when I accomplish something I am proud of?

What did I accomplish today? HDIFAT?

Do I have enough time to accomplish my goals? HDIFAT?

HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do?

What do I hope to accomplish this summer? HDIFAT?

What jobs would I most like to accomplish this weekend? HDIFAT?

What would I like to accomplish during this time of Lent? HDIFAT?

ACCOMPLISHED 1

What would I like to get accomplished this week? HDIFAT?

ACCOMPLISHING 1

When I am busy, am I really accomplishing anything? HDIFAT?

ACCOMPLISHMENTS 1

HDIF when I consider my accomplishments?

ACCORDING 4

HDIF when things do not go according to plan? HDIFAT?

What makes it hard to live according to our own values? HDIFAT?

HDIF about living our marriage according to God's plan?

When I have to do things according to a fixed schedule, I feel _____. HDIFAT?

ACCOUNT 3

HDIF about the way we handle our checking account(s)?

HDIF when our checking account is overdrawn?

HDIF about the children having a savings account?

ACCOUNTABLE 1

HDIF about being accountable to someone else?

ACCOUNTS 1

Do I keep short accounts, or do I let things build up over time? HDIFAT?

ACCUSE 1

HDIF when you falsely accuse me of something?

ACCUSED 1

Have I ever been accused of something I did not do? HDIFAT?

ACCUSES 1

HDIF when someone falsely accuses me of something?

ACHES 1

Do I let my little aches and pains interfere with our relationship? HDIFAT?

ACHIEVABLE 1

Do I prefer grand ideas, plans and dreams, or something more achievable? HDIFAT?

ACHIEVE 4

What do I hope to achieve through dialogue? HDIFAT?

What do I want most to achieve for us? When? How? HDIFAT?

What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?

What goals would I like to see us achieve in the next few months? HDIFAT?

ACHIEVED 2

HDIF when I consider the level of success I have achieved?

Have I achieved my values? HDIFAT?

ACHIEVEMENT 1

Looking back over my day, what act or achievement makes me feel best about myself? HDIFAT?

ACQUAINTANCES 1

Am I more likely to make a few close friends, or many acquaintances? HDIFAT?

ACQUIRE 1

HDIF about the values our children acquire from TV?

ACQUIRED 1

Have I acquired any new qualities this lately? HDIFAT?

ACT 13

Do I need to work through my emotions / feelings before I can act, or can I put them aside and get the job done? HDIFAT?

If I were in a Circus Act, I would be _____. HDIFAT?

Do I ever act silly enough to embarrass my friends? HDIFAT?

Do I act younger or older than I am? HDIFAT?

What attitude of mine helps me act in a loving way? HDIFAT?

When was the last time I did a Random Act of Kindness (RAK) for you? HDIFAT?

Have I ever felt guilty after performing a sex act? Be specific. HDIFAT?

Do I fully believe that in the act of our loving each other, we bring Christ's presence to the world? HDIFAT?

Am I too inhibited to act silly or stupid? HDIFAT?

After a fight: Did one of us act childish? HDIFAT?

When at a party, do we act like married singles? HDIFAT?

Looking back over my day, what act or achievement makes me feel best about myself? HDIFAT?

HDIF when you act on your emotions / feelings, content to let the chips fall where they may?

ACTED 1

When was the last time I acted like a little kid? HDIFAT?

ACTING 4

HDIF when I delay acting on a good idea until it is too late?

HDIF when I return from acting like a married single?

How do I see God acting in our lives? HDIFAT?

When I do not approve of the way a friend is acting, I tend to _____. HDIFAT?

ACTION 5

HDIF about going with you to an action movie?

Do I have the right mix of contemplation and action in my life? HDIFAT?

Does it take me a long time to get into action, or do I get into action quickly? HDIFAT?

Does it take me a long time to get into action, or do I get into action quickly? HDIFAT?

When it is time to take action, I prefer to _____. HDIFAT?

ACTIONS 13

After a fight: Am I still making excuses for my actions? HDIFAT?

Could any of my actions today, either purposely or unintentionally, have hurt someone else? HDIFAT?

Did my actions today lift others up or put them down? HDIFAT?

Do my actions help or hinder Martin Luther King's dream of a society where all are equal? HDIFAT?

HDIF when I must explain my actions?

HDIF when I realize my priorities are inconsistent with my actions?

What positive actions will I take to change a pressure into a blessing? HDIFAT?

HDIF when the actions of other people come between us?

What things, actions, ideas, do I find the most threatening? HDIFAT?

What actions or behaviors do I use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT?

What actions or behaviors do you use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT?

What actions, things or behaviors are life-giving to me? HDIFAT?

When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT?