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ADVENT 6
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| How would I approach Advent and Christmas if I knew this would be our last Christmas season together? HDIFAT? |
| What would I like to do during Advent this year? HDIFAT? |
| Is Advent preparation for Christ's birthday or Santa Claus? HDIFAT? |
| What obstacles do I personally have to a good spiritual Advent this year? HDIFAT? |
| How can we make this Advent a spiritual preparation for Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| Do our children know what Advent means? HDIFAT? |
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ADVENTURE 1
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| HDIF when my spirit of adventure triumphs over good sense? |
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ADVENTUROUS 1
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| Am I more the methodical type or the adventurous type? HDIFAT? |
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ADVERSE 1
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| What do I learn from adverse situations? HDIFAT? |
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ADVERSITY 1
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| In the face of real adversity, I become _____. HDIFAT? |
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ADVICE 20
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| When I accept advice from others, am I willing to accept their help as well? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about asking advice from others before I make decisions? |
| Do people come to you for advice? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about paying a lawyer for advice? |
| HDIF about paying a therapist for advice? |
| HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it? |
| HDIF giving advice to _____? |
| HDIF when other people cannot resist giving me advice? |
| HDIF when someone I do not know well offers me advice? |
| HDIF about getting other people's advice for solving our problems? |
| HDIF about getting other people's advice on a personal problem? |
| HDIF when someone tries to get my professional advice in a social setting? |
| When I seek advice, am I really seeking what is best for me, or to get support for what I wanted all along? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about trying different things to see what works best, as opposed to seeking advice? |
| HDIF when I am seeking advice from _____? |
| HDIF about the advice, Forgive and forget? |
| Do I learn from the mistakes of others and listen to their advice? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am get useful unsolicited advice from others? |
| HDIF when I am get useless unsolicited advice from others? |
| What advice would I give a young bride or groom? HDIFAT? |
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AFFAIR 1
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| HDIF about our love affair with life? |
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AFFECT 72
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| How do our children's activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does your lack of response to physical affection affect my mood? HDIFAT? |
| How does our ethnic background affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does our budget affect our intimacy? HDIFAT? |
| How does Christmas buying affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Our changing moods can affect our relationship. HDIFAT? |
| Does my job or career affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does change affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does chaos affect our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| How do our children affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How would never having children affect my life? HDIFAT? |
| How would never having children affect our life? HDIFAT? |
| How does our method of birth control affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How did the absence of dialogue affect our communication and closeness? HDIFAT? |
| How does failure affect my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| How does the season (spring, summer, winter, fall) affect me? HDIFAT? |
| How does my attitude toward my father affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does my attitude toward your father affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How do parish or church finances affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT? |
| How does our relationship with God affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How do your insecurities affect me? HDIFAT? |
| How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What am I searching for in life and how does it affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does my or your job affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does the busy-ness of our lives affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does my parents' marriage affect my behavior toward you? HDIFAT? |
| How does my attitude toward my mother affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does my attitude toward your mother affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How do the attitudes and behaviors of others affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does my relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does my relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does your relationship with my parents affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How do our possessions affect my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does the image I try to project affect our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| How does the image I try to project affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How do I react to pressure? How does my reaction affect you? HDIFAT? |
| Does our sexual relationship affect our closeness? HDIFAT? |
| How do I respond to pressure? How does my response affect you? HDIFAT? |
| How does our schedule affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How do my goals for financial security affect our children? HDIFAT? |
| How does my negative or positive self-image affect me being life-giving? HDIFAT? |
| How does my poor self-image affect our couple prayer? HDIFAT? |
| How does my self-image affect my view of us? HDIFAT? |
| How does our financial situation affect our intimacy? HDIFAT? |
| How does our financial situation affect our unity? HDIFAT? |
| How does stress affect my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| How does stress affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How does my mask (personality style) affect our purchases? HDIFAT? |
| How does success affect my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe in work before play? How does that affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider my emotions / feelings in making decisions that affect you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I get enough sleep? How does that affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have the attitude, Do not start something you cannot finish, and how does that affect our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about myself today? Does that affect how I feel about you? |
| What do I hope for next summer, how does that affect our family and HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the person, Jesus, and how does this affect us? |
| What values of mine differ from yours? How does this affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When we have to change roles, how does this affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When something bad happens to me, do I allow it to affect my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| How does TV affect our lives? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways does TV affect our family life? HDIFAT? |
| Does the level or tone of your voice affect me? HDIFAT? |
| How do we affect the marriages of others around us? HDIFAT? |
| How does the weather affect how I am with you? HDIFAT? |
| How does the weather affect my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| Do we ever threaten each other? What affect does this have or not have on our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| How does my work affect my relationship with my people? HDIFAT? |
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AFFECTED 21
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| How has alcohol affected our lives? HDIFAT? |
| Marriages around us are affected by how well they see ours working. HDIFAT? |
| How has my attitude affected our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How has never having children affected my life? HDIFAT? |
| How has never having children affected our life? HDIFAT? |
| How have other couples affected our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| How has our dialogue affected our daily life as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| How has our dialogue affected our family? HDIFAT? |
| How has your writing a dialogue letter to me, each time you do, affected our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How has the economy affected us? HDIFAT? |
| How has our failure to live God's plan for our marriage affected us? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, who most affected my life? HDIFAT? |
| What couple has most affected our life? HDIFAT? |
| What experience has most affected our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What specific event in my past has most affected my sexuality? HDIFAT? |
| How has the temptation to live the World's Plan affected us? HDIFAT? |
| How is our relationship affected when one of us is ill? HDIFAT? |
| How is our relationship affected when we strive to love unconditionally? HDIFAT? |
| What couple, that we know, do I see as important to us and how have they affected our life? HDIFAT? |
| How have we affected other couples' marriages? HDIFAT? |
| When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT? |