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ALZHEIMER'S 1
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| HDIF about taking a test to predict Alzheimer's disease? |
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AMBITIONS 2
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| Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your ambitions, whether great or small? |
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AMERICAN 1
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| HDIF about being an American? |
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AMOUNT 12
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| Do I put more than the average amount of effort into my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| Do I put more than the average amount of effort into my relationship with my people? HDIFAT? |
| Do I put more than the average amount of effort into our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the amount of money we pay in taxes? |
| HDIF about the amount of quality time we have spent together this week? |
| HDIF about the amount of time I spend on my work? |
| HDIF about the amount of time I spend preparing myself for mass / services. |
| HDIF about the amount of time we spend on foreplay? |
| HDIF about the amount of time we spend together doing things I enjoy? |
| HDIF about the amount of time we spend watching TV? |
| HDIF about the amount of TV our children watch? |
| HDIF when I consider the amount of variety in my life? |
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ANALYZE 2
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| Given a workable idea, will I analyze what is still wrong with it? HDIFAT? |
| Do I listen to others, or do I try to analyze them? HDIFAT? |
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ANCESTORS 2
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| HDIF about my family name, my family tree, my relatives, my ancestors? |
| What part of the world are my ancestors from? HDIFAT? |
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ANCESTRY 1
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| HDIF when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession / ancestry / gender? |
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ANGEL 3
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| Have I ever had an experience when I thought an angel helped me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about giving to an Angel Tree or other project for needy people? |
| How would I feel if the angel Gabriel spoke to me? HDIFAT? |
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ANGER 19
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| Am I experiencing any anger directed against myself? HDIFAT? |
| Am I experiencing any anger or resentment over being hurt? HDIFAT? |
| How do we handle anger in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How much anger do I carry in my heart? HDIFAT? |
| Do I release my anger and frustration appropriately or inappropriately? HDIFAT? |
| Do I vent my anger in an appropriate way? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am able to go beyond my anger and reach out to you? |
| HDIF when I try to hold in my anger? |
| How do I express my anger? HDIFAT? |
| What feeling is most likely to be the source of my anger? HDIFAT? |
| What of my emotions / feelings is most likely to lead to an expression of anger? HDIFAT? |
| Am I holding onto any resentment, bitterness or anger toward my child? HDIFAT? |
| Am I holding onto any resentment, bitterness or anger toward my father? HDIFAT? |
| Am I holding onto any resentment, bitterness or anger toward my mother? HDIFAT? |
| Am I holding onto any resentment, bitterness or anger toward you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face? |
| God is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and full of love. Am I to others as God is to me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I use anger as a source of energy? HDIFAT? |
| Do I use anger to avoid dealing with the hurt I feel? HDIFAT? |
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ANGRY 19
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| When someone is aggressively angry with me, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am angry with you? |
| How do I behave when I am angry? HDIFAT? |
| When I am angry, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who are angry? |
| HDIF when I judge you are angry with me? |
| HDIF when I think you are angry with me? |
| How can I tell when you are angry? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have been angry with you? |
| HDIF about going to bed when we are both angry? |
| Describe a time when I felt angry. |
| Describe a time when I felt angry. HDIFAT? |
| What is the best thing for me to do when I get angry? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I leave angry words unspoken? |
| What do I do to get relief from emotional pain when I am tired, lonely, angry or hurting? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take it out on me? |
| HDIF after I have said angry words that may have hurt you? |
| HDIF when you become violently angry with me? |
| The last person I was angry at was _____. HDIFAT? |
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ANIMAL 4
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| If I were an animal, I would choose to be a _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I unavoidably hit some small animal with the car? |
| As a child, did I sleep with a stuffed animal or special blanket? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about getting our next pet from the animal shelter? |
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ANIMALS 3
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| Do I prefer the company of people or animals? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF seeing animals in the zoo? |
| Do I think animals go to heaven? HDIFAT? |
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ANNIVERSARIES 3
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| HDIF about celebrating our anniversaries? |
| Which of our anniversaries do I remember most fondly? HDIFAT? |
| What anniversaries do I celebrate? HDIFAT? |
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ANNIVERSARY 9
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| What would I really like for an anniversary gift (not a purchased gift)? HDIFAT? |
| What do I remember most about the way we spent our first anniversary? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I forget our anniversary? |
| HDIF when I remember our anniversary is coming up soon? |
| How can we best celebrate our anniversary? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the anniversary of Roe versus Wade? |
| HDIF about celebrating our wedding anniversary this year? |
| HDIF looking back at our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary? |
| HDIF looking forward to our twenty-fifth wedding anniversary? |
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ANNOY 3
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| How does my mask (personality style) disappoint, frustrate, or annoy others? HDIFAT? |
| How does my mask (personality style) frustrate, disappoint or annoy other people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when people do little things to tease, annoy or insult me? |
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ANNOYANCE 3
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| What little annoyance(s) have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT? |
| What little annoyance(s) have I tried to accept but have not been able to? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see anger or annoyance on your face? |
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ANNOYANCES 1
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| What little annoyances am I having trouble accepting? HDIFAT? |
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ANNOYED 3
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| HDIF when I am annoyed by the phone? |
| HDIF when you are annoyed with me? |
| HDIF when you seem annoyed with me? |
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ANNOYING 1
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| What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAT? |
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ANNOYS 3
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| What do I do that annoys my people? HDIFAT? |
| What do I do that annoys people? Why do they react that way? HDIFAT? |
| What do I do that annoys you? HDIFAT? |
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ANONYMOUSLY 1
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| What is the nicest thing I have done for someone anonymously? HDIFAT? |
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ANOTHER 39
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| Another weekend has come and gone. HDIFAT? |
| When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our togetherness affects another marriage? |
| There will never be another you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF beginning another year with you? |
| HDIF when we are inspired by another couple? |
| HDIF when we are inspired by another couples' relationship? |
| HDIF about challenging another couple to dialogue with us for _____ days? |
| You cannot compromise another person's right to be themselves. HDIFAT? |
| Do I live the values I profess, or do I say one thing but do another? HDIFAT? |
| I know I would never find another you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we do something for another couple? |
| HDIF when you do something special for another couple? |
| What do I think is needed for another child in our lives? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive another person? |
| HDIF when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building? |
| If I were to give another couple a tip on marriage, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about quitting my job although I do not have another job lined up? |
| HDIF when I hug another Christian? |
| HDIF about hugging another couple? |
| HDIF about inviting another couple to dialogue with us regularly? |
| Is St. Valentine's Day special to me or just another day? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about learning another language? |
| What did I do to lift another person this week? HDIFAT? |
| You cannot make another person love you. HDIFAT? |
| You cannot control the love and fidelity of another person. HDIFAT? |
| We are invited to a wedding of another faith expression. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see an Encounter / Retrouvaille sticker on another car? |
| Do I give each family member equal time, or do I favor one over another? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see another couple holding hands? |
| If I could speak another language, what would it be and why? HDIFAT? |
| You cannot hold on to another person out of fear of loss. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sending secret gifts and notes to another couple? |
| Do I believe you will be tired and cranky in the morning if I keep you up another hour? HDIFAT? |
| What fears keep me from wanting another child? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when another couple asks, How is your dialogue? |
| How can I tell when another couple is really in love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about beginning a dialog challenge with another couple? |
| HDIF about dialoguing with another couple? |